For some, it comes as an epiphany: just like that, their lives are changed forever. For others, it can be triggered by a place or event. For most of us, though, it comes slowly — but it does happen to all of us at some point.
Our lives change.
We hope it’s from something incredible, like in the movies. In a flash, everything is perfect and makes sense forever. It’s long been the stuff of entertainment, the promise that we matter and that life is wonderful. But for most of us, it comes through harder things: a life-threatening illness, or the sudden loss of a loved one.
Life changes, and that’s what we’re talking about this week.
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We begin by talking about the first time we felt like we experienced a life-changing event, and then we jump to the age we feel most people experience the most change in life. After that we discuss whether or not we stop having life-changing events by the time we reach adulthood, or if that’s when we’re most likely to have them.
Next, we chat about the biggest life-changing events in our lives and the effect they had on us. Find out if we’ve ever changed somebody else’s life, and which books, movies, or other things have affected us deeply. Then we get specific and talk about some other bigger life-changing events in our lives.
We devote some time to whether or not the relative safety of suburban existence creates more or fewer life-changing events, and then talk about bucket lists: are they all they’re cracked up to be?
Some people fear the changes we go through as we age. We discuss whether or not we fear the future, and if we believe that life changes when we reach milestone ages in life.
We close it all out with the life-changing events we haven’t experienced that we hope to experience sometime in the future.
How has your life changed? Feel free to discuss it in the comments.
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Your story about your doctor calling you almost immediately after your checkup reminded me of my doctor doing the same thing. Only it wasn’t a 2.5 cm tumor, it was a 6.7 iron count. Only he didn’t tell me that, he just told me to go to an ER immediately. So I was in the ER for 5 hours before one of the nurses finally told me why I was there. They all seemed to be very secretive, oddly enough.
Whoa. Did Shawn just say he’d like to lose a limb? Damn, and I thought I was highly suggestible.
And I dare Shawn to shave his head.
Double dog dare.